Yes, eToro is 100% legitimate. I withdraw funds regularly from my account every four to six weeks or so and I always have a very positive experience with them. You can rest assured that eToro takes good care of your money and that the withdrawal process is professional and efficient.
I am trying to get myself into a financial position where I can leave more funds in my eToro account with which to trade - because compounding is the real way to make money in forex, especially if you do not have a large starting capital. But for now I need my gains from eToro and I have no problem claiming my money.
When you are ready to withdraw an amount it is quicker (and often a requirement) to select to withdraw money via the same method that you deposited it. I deposited with my Visa card - and so I withdraw to my Visa card. The Terms and Conditions state that eToro and RetailFX reserve the right to pay funds out to the same method as funds were originally deposited. This is to avoid money laundering - which is a good thing for all of us honest traders.
Also, you receive an email as soon as the payment has been processed - here's a screenshot of my latest email :

- eToro Funds Withdrawal confirmation email
I will describe the complete withdrawal procedure below;
Julie Stewart, France